Mavin Records boss, Don Jazzy, believes that sex before marriage is a must for him. The music veteran made this known in a question and answer session on his Instgram page. He was asked what he would do when he marries a lady and finds out that she has a low sex drive. Don Jazzy answered that he would definitely have sex with the lady he intends to marry before they walk down the aisle and if the lady would not agree then she should not even bother being with him. In his words, “Oga, I must chop the thing…
Author: Sarafina Ann Nneoha
A lot of times, I have had friends chat me up and tell me stuffs like, “Ann, you inspire me a lot with the way you are chasing your dreams”. “I look at you going after what you love, and I am inspired to do same”. I read these messages and smile. Sure it makes me feel good. I mean, the fact that you are a source of inspiration to many is enough to keep one going right? Most people see my posts on social media. I am all happy and excited going after my dreams; shooting short films, attending…
So I was having a discussion with my friends yesterday evening. We were actually coming back from work and with the skimpy gown I was wearing; my cleavage was showing a little bit. Not that it was intentional though. One of my friends was like, “Ann, must you always show off your boobs?” The question actually got me laughing out my ribs and I went all defensive. “No now, I didn’t know my boobs were showing”, I replied while trying to adjust my dress. “Abeg, allow her to show off her asset jaree”, one of them said and everyone rolled…
The former president of Nigeria, Olusegun Obasanjo, asserted that if God is not a Nigerian then the country would have gone into extinction. He made this known while delivering a keynote address at Babcock University, IIishan-Remo. Here is part of what he said; “God is a Nigerian because what we have gone through in Nigeria and what we are going through, probably, Nigeria should not be on the map of the world. That is why I say God is a Nigerian. God has been kind to us; if not, the country would have ceased to exist”. His assertion that God…
Nollywood actress Cossy Orjiakor has revealed that she is not scared of marriage. Cossy Orjiakor made this revelation during a recent interview with Sun News when asked if she is scared of marriage. According to her: “I am not scared of marriage. However, if it is somebody that is crazy enough to like someone like me; that would be great! But then, I am not that kind of person that is really into the love thing….” You see, no matter how much we try to downplay it, the truth is that marriage is hardwork. And most times, the thought of getting married…
Since Thursday June 28th 2019, social media has been buzzing with the Busola’s rape allegation to Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo. Busola Dakolo who is a wife to popular Nigerian musician, Timi Dakolo revealed how the senior pastor of Commonwealth of Zion Assemble, Biodun Fatoyinbo raped her twice years ago. She made this revelation in an exclusive interview with YNaija. During the interview, she gave a detailed account of how she met the pastor while she was in secondary school and started worshipping at his then club turned church after a lot of persuasions from her sisters. Busola went ahead and gave…
Getting to know that your lover; someone you trusted with your heart and vagina is cheating on you can be devastating as hell. I know this because I have been there. My boyfriend and I had been together for two years before I got to find out that he was playing games behind my back. The first thing I noticed about him was unlike before; he became very much attached to his phone. We could be together but all his attention will be focused on his phone. It will be very obvious that he is chatting with someone. And I…
We all have dreams. We all have aspirations; something we are hoping to achieve one day. But when it comes to taking steps to achieve those dreams, most of us become scared to take the necessary risks. We forget that many of life’s achievements require going outside of our comfort zones. It could either be overcoming shyness to perform on stage, investing money in a business or putting ourselves there for the chance to find love. The truth is that most of life’s rewarding experiences come as a result of taking risks. But then, most of us find it difficult…
Hey lovelies, The weekend is finally here, so let’s shake things up a little! I have a racy question for y’all. When’s the last time you had an orgasm? Last night? Two days ago? Three weeks ago? Three months ago? Never? Okay, for those that have no idea what it feels like to reach orgasm when having sex, I will tell you what it feels like. First, orgasm can be described as a “sudden release of muscular and nervous tension at the climax of sexual experience,” but that leaves room for interpretation. During sexual intercourse, there are some physical signals…
A friend once shared a story with me. She told me about a girl who got raped in her apartment. However, when the girl made an attempt to give a report at the police station, she was shunned and discouraged by close friends and relatives. “It will dent your image jare”. “People will start treating you differently”. “No man will want to marry you”. These were some of the replies she got, and it totally discouraged her from speaking up. But really, would you blame them? Our society is one where girls who are victims of rape are often seen…
When it comes to the sex department, there is always need to think outside the box and outside the bedroom. I mean, sex is creative — even when it’s not about creating new people — it’s a place we go to that exists as much inside our imagination as in our body. It’s really easy to slip into a sexual routine with your significant other — he knows what you like, and vice-versa. But then, a time would come when the routine becomes boring. And that is why it is important to keep sex creative. By creative — I don’t…
It’s weekend, that time of the week when we get to rest our brain. You know, take a break from the stressful week. Now, let us spice the weekend with a racy poll! Yesterday, while I was having a chinwag with a male friend, we were actually talking about gaining sexual satisfaction from your partner and he went, “I love foreplay a lot but my girlfriend loves it more when I just penetrate without much foreplay”. This actually got me thinking. I personally love foreplay. Like, sometimes, I wonder what it is about sex that drives most people crazy. And…
Growing up as a teenager, I carried low self-esteem along as though it was my best friend. At 15, most of my mates then in school were already had male species flocking around them. Unlike me, they were beautiful, tall, and richly endowed with female assets. Most times, when I looked at them, I go green with envy. I stare at myself in the mirror and wonder why I wasn’t as beautiful as they are. I wrote myself off several times; I wasn’t good enough to be any boy’s girlfriend. I mean, what did I have to offer? I actually…
One of the popular female rappers, Cardi B recently took to her Instagram stories and shared the secret to her success. According to her, she prays four times a day and anywhere she finds herself because prayer is her secret in life. I know many of her fans would probably roll their eye. Like Cardi B of all people praying? But really, does it matter? The truth is that no matter who you are or what you are doing in life, everyone needs prayers. Most times we tend to underestimate the power of our prayers. Aside the fact that prayers…
Few days back, on Sunday, June 9, one of the popular actresses in Nollywood, Tonto Dikeh celebrated her 34th birthday. In celebrating her, her fellow actress, Mercy Aigbe had sent her love and wishes. She shared a photo of Dikeh on her Instagram page with a message describing Dikeh as she sees her. Mercy described Tonto as a beautiful, bold, stubborn, and strong woman. She noted that she calls her craze girl and if there were more women like Dikeh, men would have sense. Here is what she wrote; “Happy Birthday to this super beautiful, very bold, extremely stubborn, strong woman, I…
Popular Nigerian media personality and author, Toke Makinwa, recently took to her Instagram stories and encouraged women to go after their dreams without being subdued by what the society thinks. According to her, the right man will respect and value feats achieved by an ambitious woman. Here is what she wrote; “Buy that house, buy your dream car, go on that vacation. Don’t let anyone tell you it’ll scare them away. The right man will respect all you’ve worked hard to achieve on your own and be inspired that in this man’s world, (so they think), you did it”. “The…
In the sex department, there is nothing more exciting and fun other than a quickie. I never knew this until the night boyfriend and I were together and I was travelling to another city the next day. You know, we were together, talked about a lot of stuffs, how we will miss each other, how to keep the communication alive, how we will be able to cope without each other. The conversation was already getting emotional when I suddenly suggested, “Baby, let’s just have a quickie”. Lol, boyfriend gave me this look, like, “You must be crazy. We are in…
You know the days when you just don’t want to work? Seriously, this is one of those days. I mean, there are days when I know I am supposed to be writing but even though the body is willing, the mind is not willing. The truth is that no matter what you are working on, there are bound to be days when you don’t feel like showing up. There will be articles you don’t feel like writing. There will be workouts that you don’t feel like starting. Bottom point is, there will be “off days” when your energy and emotions…
Okay. Before y’all go ahead to answer this question, I know most of you know who a runs girl is but let me still do a little breakdown on the meaning of a “Runs girl”. According to urban dictionary, runs girl is a Nigerian slang used to refer to a girl who likes to hangout, party and most times have sex with different men for money and other benefits. They don’t hang out with broke guys. I’d say that a “runs girl” is a term that emanated from the infamous word “prostitute” and as such, runs girl is synonymous with…
Okay. Before y’all go ahead to answer this question, I know most of you know who a runs girl is but let me still do a little breakdown on the meaning of a “Runs girl”. According to urban dictionary, runs girl is a Nigerian slang used to refer to a girl who likes to hangout, party and most times have sex with different men for money and other benefits. They don’t hang out with broke guys. I’d say that a “runs girl” is a term that emanated from the infamous word “prostitute” and as such, runs girl is synonymous with…
We all know that sexual satisfaction plays a crucial part in every romantic relationship. If you are a guy and you are not satisfying your lady enough sexually, chances are she would cheat on you and if you are a lady not sexually satisfying your boyfriend or husband enough, he might cheat on you too. But then, a lot of times the problem that most couples face might be one of them having a low sex drive. You know, he or she is hardly in the mood. We all think low sex drive is something that probably comes with mood…
So, I was roaming online this morning when I came across a Facebook post made by a lady. Here is what she wrote; “I was still dating my ex when his best friend sent me a dam and asked “Unjani Kodwa, how is my best friend is treating you though? I responded, “He has not texted me today:… he said, “I can do better”… and he meant it coz we are celebrating our 3rd anniversary. I guess what I am trying to say is that, your soul mate might be your boyfriend’s best friend, his brother or dad”. The moment…
So, yesterday the former vice president of Nigeria, Atiku Abubakar expressed his concern over the disturbing spike in suicide rate among Nigerian youths. He took to his twitter handle @atiku and tweeted, “The rate of suicide among our youth is worrisome. I believe that as parents and community, we need to pay close attention for early signs of depression”. There is no doubt that the rate at which Nigerian youths take their lives these days is very much alarming. Just eight days ago, it was reported that a 400 level University of Nigeria Nsukka Student, Chukwuemeka Akachi committed suicide. He…
Yesterday, Nigeria’s famous Love Doctor and relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin took to his Instagram page @joroolumofin and revealed twenty (20) reasons why every guy should break up with their girlfriends. He did this by positing a picture of his cute self with the caption, “20 reasons why you should break up with your Girlfriend”. According to Nigerian’s number one love doctor, below are the reasons why any guy should break up with his girlfriend- If she can’t use N5,000 to cook decent meals from Friday – Sunday If she has more than 3 married men as “besto”, “fwends” or “My…
In Nigeria, it’s like a taboo to be a single lady in her thirties. The struggle is real. You see couples wherever you go to, your friends and mates are getting married and having kids, everyone around you seems to be talking about their married life and you have nothing to share. Your parents are on your neck to find a man; they make you feel as though you are incomplete without a man in your life. While all these are happening and you are trying to keep your head above the water, there are times or moments of frustration…
I remember when my first boyfriend broke up with me. It felt like my whole world crumbled. First, it was really hard thinking about the love messages, flowers, dates- all of these were a joke. I was like a confused little girl standing in the middle of the road with no clue where to head to. I’d cry myself to sleep every night hoping that everything was a dream and I would wake up to find him smiling down at me. But on waking up, the reality dawns on me; he is gone and he was never going to come…
Are your friends really your friends? Yeah, I know it sounds like a stupid question. You are probably thinking, of course the people I think of as friends consider me their friend too. But is that really the case? This morning I woke up to shocking news – about a 17year old boy who got drowned in a pool while his FRIENDS watched. Like, how in God’s name would your friends watch you die without offering to help all because of envy? According to the boys who were later arrested, they were jealous of their friend because he comes from…
Welcome to our society where many of us have been conditioned to believe that bigger is better. Every girl on social media talks about how much she prefers a bigger penis. Guys who are small or average down there are filled with low self esteem when it comes to taking a girl to the other room. The worst insult you can actually give to a guy is to tell him that his manhood is small. There was this post I saw on Twitter the other day. A girl was complaining about the awful sex she had with a guy. The…
Of all the days of the week, Mondays are the worst. I despise Monday mornings so much that I look at Sunday as an impending doom. I woke up this morning feeling too lazy to get my ass off the bed. The truth is that regardless if you are a student, an employee or you are running your own business; it is often a problem to stay motivated on Mondays after relaxing over the weekend. Monday morning make you feel like a giraffe – all gawky and spotted, all sleepy eyed and too tired to get up from bed. Even…
Dear guys, in your busy schedule, have you ever paused and thought about what your penis would say if it had the ability to talk? Perhaps some could be kind, with soft and charming words if they will ever talk while some would be rude and abusive. If the penis could talk, it will definitely make it clear to everyone out there how it has the mind of its own; how it can be completely unpredictable and at times, straight up annoying. It will tender its apology on the lack of manners it posses and how it decides to act…
