Author: Sarafina Ann Nneoha

Dear ladies, I know moving in together with your boyfriend can be the most exciting thing ever. I mean your relationship has been going on well, you have taken trips together, you have survived your first fight, you have celebrated anniversaries and now you and your significant other are about to hit another milestone – moving in together. You simply can’t wait to cook dinner together, feel super romantic and probably show off to your friends that you not only landed an awesome boyfriend but that you are committing to each other even more. Oh well, in as much as…

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We all know the saying that “Nobody is perfect”. But that doesn’t mean that we should stop seeking perfection in ourselves. In as much as perfection in every field of life is not realistic, we should understand that as humans, there is always something about ourselves that we can improve on. I mean, instead of trying to be perfect in every field in life, you can focus on one area and work your ass off to get the work done. The human potential is limitless and it is impossible to reach a point of no growth. In fact, the more…

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The thing with humans is that we can all make snap judgments, especially when meeting someone for the first time. I mean, you could meet someone for the first and in less than thirty seconds, our brain processes information about the person’s face—which leads to quick conclusions about the person’s qualities, including their trustworthiness, competency, friendliness, honesty and morality. You see the old saying that “Never getting a second chance to make a first impression?” It is still very true. And the good news is that you don’t have to be the smartest or the most attractive, or finest to…

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So there is this guy that has been on your neck for months now. He texts you often; calls you like three times a day to check up on you and he always tells you how much you mean to him. You guys finally start seeing each other and all is well and finally you decide that it is time to get between the sheets. It felt comfortable and natural. And then everything changes. You noticed that he grew distant. Perhaps he started taking longer to reply to your texts or he ghosted you altogether. Like slowly, this guy that seemed to like you…

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Dear ladies, in your busy schedule, have you ever paused and wondered what your vagina would say to you if it had the ability to talk? It is the most sensitive and magical place in our bodies yet it is always ignored. If the vagina could talk, I imagine her being a very angry little girl with shard breaths and eyes red with anger. Here are the five things it could probably tell every lady out there. Call me by my name. Don’t be ashamed to call me by name. I don’t really appreciate the fact that I have been…

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In every relationship, it is possible that there would be a time when the two lovebirds will grow too comfortable with each other. Let’s say, for the first six months, it is all excitement and adrenaline rush but after two years, both lovebirds really have to work to keep the romance. I recently detected this happening in my own relationship. When the relationship first started, it was very fun and nice. You know, he would call me at least three times a day, we chat non-stop, we gist, we exchange love text messages, it was all ‘lovey dovey’ until one…

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In our society today, there are a lot of women dealing with infidelity from their significant others in their relationship. As a woman, the moment you find out that your partner, your better half, the love of your life is cheating on you can hit you like a ton of bricks. Your heartbeat suddenly increases and it feels like a bag of sand is lodged in your heart and your mind starts working overtime; thinking of the possible reasons why your better half cheated on you. Is it that he no longer finds you pretty and sexy? Is the sex…

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There is no doubt that Lagos state is the biggest and busiest city in Nigeria.  And just like most busy cities in the world, Lagos is notorious for its traffic gridlock that is enough to send any average driver crazy. The traffic would have been bearable but for the presence of impatient drivers and riders, pedestrians are in a hurry; it’s more like everyone wants to get home the same time. And with everyone hurrying to find their way out of the traffic jam, there is bound to be traffic. It is even worse when you are inside a commercial…

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Dear guys, it is no longer news that most girls are very much attracted to guys with beards to die for. Aside that, having beards has a way of making you look very much matured. It is one reason why most times my heart goes out to some guys that are beardless. Like, how do they cope? Someone once said on twitter that she wonders where beardless guys touch when they are thinking about life. Lol, funny really. But then, does it just end at having beards? Does the story end there? Do you just sit your ass down with…

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There is nothing as frustrating to a lady as when she keeps wondering whether her so-called is into her or not. It’s frustrating as fuck! I know this because I have been there. You know that moment when you really love this guy but you could feel that something is a little bit off. And then you starts second guessing yourself, perhaps he is just too shy to make the move you are expecting. But really, if that was the case, then why isn’t he replying to my numerous text? Why doesn’t he call me often? Why don’t I know…

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The idea the love has a lot of health benefits attached to it is funny right? But the truth is that, being in love is not only good for your spirit, it equally has other physical and psychological advantages too. Yes, I am speaking from experience. I have been in love before and I can guarantee you that it was a feeling I appreciated so much. I mean, who doesn’t value the magical feeling of being in love? Love goes beyond that fuzzy feeling, the butterflies in your stomach, the love text message, the incessant calls and chats and the…

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In this journey called life, there is no doubt that we are bound to pass through some experiences that will drain our positive energy. Some experiences would leave your mind filled with so much negativity. We might face other life issues that would make us want to throw in the towel and scream, “Fuck you Life!” The truth is that our life is sometimes a reflection of our attitude. It is easy to become negative and pessimistic when faced with some life issues and heartaches. Without even noticing it, our gloomy and negative attitude would prevent us from fully enjoying…

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So I have this male friend that went out on a date with a lady. After the first date, he grew to like the girl – I mean, for his mind, the first date was so perfect so he couldn’t wait for the second date. But reality knocked him down when he called asking the girl if they could go out on a date again but the girl bailed out with reasons that weren’t very much clear. For the next two days, my friend kept trying to take the girl out for a second date – he was bugging her…

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Just as ladies have their own natural milk which is the breast milk, men too have their own milk which is the semen. The semen is really an interesting fluid. It is that white sticky substance that shoots from the penis during a sexual intercourse. It is normally released into a lady’s vagina to fertilize the egg which can eventually grow into a baby. So, ladies, have you ever thought about the benefits of this cold sticky white drink? The man milk? I know it sounds crazy but the man milk aka sperm has a lot of benefits. Make yourself…

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Seriously, I can’t remember the number of times I have been told, “Ann, follow your passion. Do what you love and money will eventually come” We hear many motivational speakers telling us, “When you do what you love, you will never feel like you are working” but then, how realistic are all these? When I was still in law school, a friend once asked me if I would practice law at the end of my service year, maybe work in a law firm and my answer was, “I really want to be a filmmaker and so I’d rather work in…

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You see, success is not accidental. It doesn’t come by chance. It is a mixture of hard work, perseverance, learning, studying, sacrifice, discipline, action and a deep love for what you are doing. Most times, when we look at successful people, we wonder how they are able to reach their level of success. Oh well, quit wondering and continue reading to find out their secrets. They work their asses off Most of us love the idea of success but not the hard work that comes with it. But here I am about to burst your bubble, no matter how great…

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The popular belief these days is that a couple taking their relationship to social media exposes such relationship to danger. We believe that taking our relationship to social media comes with a lot of negatives. Couples are advised to desist from sharing too much about their relationship online if they want to last long. We begin to wonder if social media is really that big of a danger. I mean, what is wrong if we decide to share our love to the world? But then, as the saying goes, “Whatever has an advantage has a disadvantage”. In as much as…

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Yesterday evening, while I was hanging out with one of my friends in an eatery, there was this couple that caught my attention. The fact that the girl was crying silently piqued my curiosity so much that I had to strain my ears to hear what she was saying. I didn’t hear much but my ears captured just one thing; it was a question that got my chuckling. She was asking her boyfriend, “Babe, can’t you just give me an assurance?” I almost burst into an uncontrollable laughter when I saw the look on the guy’s face. He looked very…

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Even though dating gives you an insight on the kind of guys out there but then it can sometimes be exhausting especially when you are seriously searching for that “someone. At a point, you will be so frustrated that you’re willing to settle for anyone, overlooking certain qualities you actually don’t like just so you can finally say you’re in a relationship. But then, if you’re a smart enough woman, you’ll know that there are some traits in men that you should not put up with. There are some kinds of men that you should definitely stay away from. You…

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Sometimes when you look back at the people you crushed on years back, you wonder if you were okay at all. There was this guy I met years back when I was still a teenager. I just graduated from secondary school and was waiting for admission into the university. Dude was a barber and owned a shop along our street. I can’t remember what even got me attracted to him. Maybe I thought he was cute. Or was it the way he was always walking up and down the street with earphones plugged into his ears? Maybe it was because…

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Seriously, gone are the days when carrots were just for the kitchen. These days, not only are they good for the body inside out — but carrots are actually very helpful in building soft, supple skin and aiding in hair growth and strengthening when applied externally. Instead of using all those commercially prepared shampoos, conditioners, lotions, etc. — which all contain preservatives and chemicals — it’s better to use a natural oil, likewise reducing your risk for unwanted allergic reactions. Carrot oil is very easy to make at home and it is extremely beneficial for the hair and skin. They…

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Usually those that commit suicide don’t want to die. All they want is to end whatever pain they are going through. That is all that go through their head. So they think that the better option is just to end their lives. Before a person who is passing through a lot finally decides to take his or her life, they have showed signs. A person doesn’t just wake up one morning and end their life. I think all these passes through stages. If you are close to a person that is suicidal, you will definitely notice these signs if you…

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Every year, the government keeps churning out graduates; they keep pushing them into labor market with little or no employment opportunities. This makes supply higher than demand in the labor market. These days, the rate of unemployment is so high that it’s starting to mess with some person’s psych. You see, nothing is as depressing as being broke and unemployed. So, you are a graduate still fresh out of school and you are kin on finding a source of income for a quick and steady flow of cash, well, I am here to give you some tips on what you…

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So, tomorrow is Valentine’s Day and there is no doubt that everyone is busy making plans on how to celebrate it. Tomorrow is that time of the year when November babies are made. So, for those dating, after all the glamour that comes with hanging out, the celebration is taken to the other room where a fantastic sex brings the celebration to an end. Most of us want to have that an incredible sex tomorrow.  For a reason, sex on a valentine day is somehow special. But then, don’t get yourself all worked up about it. You don’t have to…

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Valentine is just few days away and a lot of Nigerian girls are already waiting patiently for valentine gifts from their boyfriends. It is that time of the year when most guys experience cold feet because they have no idea what gift to get for their girlfriends. Some guys really suck at buying gifts, so don’t blame them.  But, the good news is this; I am here to help your career by telling you the kind of gifts you can get for your woman this valentine especially if she is a Nigerian lady. The truth is that, when buying a…

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Welcome to Nigeria, a country that would definitely win all the medals if there should ever be a World Championship for titles. A country where everyone is so obessed with titles that we can exchange our birthright for it. The general mentality is that the more titles and designations you have, the more important you become in the society. You ask someone to introduce himself and he goes, “My name is Engr. Prof. Dr. Bar. Mr….” He would say all these with his shoulders high. A friend once told me about a man who was called up to speak in…

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Codeine is an opiate narcotic pain reliever. The Drug Enforcement Administration (DEA) has classified it as a Schedule II substance, which means it has noted abuse potential. The drug is typically prescribed for cough and pain relief. The drug itself is addictive – that is, repeated use can lead to dependency and withdrawal. When used in doses and frequency that exceed what is outlined on a prescription, users can quickly develop a dependency to codeine. There are various routes of administration for this medication, including: Liquid (as is commonly found in prescription cough syrup). Pill form (under trade names such…

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In the sex department, there is nothing more exciting and fun other than a quickie. I never knew this until the night boyfriend and I were together and I was travelling to another city the next day. You know, we were together, talked about a lot of stuffs, how we will miss each other, how to keep the communication alive, how we will be able to cope without each other. The conversation was already getting emotional when I suddenly suggested, “Baby, let’s just have a quickie”. Lol, boyfriend gave me this look, like, “You must be crazy. We are in…

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Last night, while I was chatting with some friends on Whatsapp, a message popped in. It was one of those jokes that had gone viral online. The said message reads; How Ladies ask for sex: White girls: I’m horny babe. I want to fuck. Naija girls: Stay there and be pressing phone. I will soon go. This got me laughing and damn, I can totally relate. Seriously, in this part of the world, it’s difficult to come across a lady that is very much open about her sexual needs. Most of us front for the “D”; pretend like we never…

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Dear unmarried Nigerian lady, here is how to cope with marriage pressure Since I finished law school, “When are you planning to get married?” has strangely become a chant in my house considering the fact that I am the first and only daughter. My parents ask me these questions often as though that should be the next thing I should do immediately I step out of school. The question really gets to my nerve, like for crying out loud, I am just 22. Besides, asking me when I am planning to get married sounds dumb because I am not getting…

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