Come close fathers who are yet to cheat on their wives. There are revelations I would like to share with you, which I wouldn’t want the cheating Fathers to hear.
Check around, if you see anyone who has cheated, caused pains and discomfort to the wife and family, please tell me. This discussion is not for the weak.
You all remember how two weeks ago mothers celebrated their mother’s day. In my parish it was great, amazing with many side attractions. They served as Mass Servants, proclaimed the readings as lectors and animated the liturgy with their beautiful voices from the choir stand.
Indeed “mama na mama”. It was a vibing moment for them, unleashing in a stunning manner many of their hidden potentials, muffled by the choking pressure of domestic chores and sometimes the woes and agony of dealing with the risky behaviour of their roving husbands.
Their performances were thrilling, their creativity awestruck and the flexibility of their youthful exuberance expressed in their middle ages captivating.
Looking at them in their attires, the structural integrity of their physical built and the show of piety expressed in their involvement and dedication to religious activities, I was forced to ask, what do cheating men really want?
What do they want that those women we saw in our different parishes during mother’s day didn’t have? What are they looking for that can’t be found, if it is lacking can’t be enhanced from the natural endowment of those mothers.
Come close great fathers who are yet to cheat on their spouses. Listen, there is nothing different from what attracts one outside and the one one sees everyday. They are one and the same thing.
Come close strong men, who have remained resolute, defying all temptation to have a change of course meal. It can be tempting with a sensation that may be uncontrollable, the truth is, there is nothing different and special.
I know you have been tempted severally to shoot your shot but the respect you have for your wife restrained you. Keep it up and never yield.
I know you may have been boxed sometimes in a very tight situation, your reasoning took a sudden flight, leaving you to battle with the allurement of the flesh. Though very challenging but your love for God blunt the reactions of your canal mind. Keep it up bro! It pays to be faithful, decent and contented with the beauty you have as a wife.
Come you fathers that have not unveiled the secret place for the view and sighting of other eyes except their wives’ eyes. Come you are the beloved of the father, in you he is well pleased.
Come you faithful and decent fathers. Eva bottled water is same everywhere. The value may differ because of location. Eva bottle water in Hotels may be more expensive than the one sold in Malls, the content is same though the price differs.
Your wife out of constant sighting may appear less valuable than those that make your eyes pop up outside. The truth is, they are same but different values, due to the warped imagination of one sensual mind, looking for something to explore and conquer.
Come close you fathers, you who have walked steadily on the slippery road of the concubeciences of the flesh without falling. Come close the beloved of the father. I tell you for free there is nothing in that thing that makes your body systems shiver in passion better than what you already have on a platter.
To you who have cheated, continue to cheat unrepentantly, there is no trophy to be won. You are merely feeding your sensual appetite, each day you feed it with your indulgence, it grows bigger, putting your life close to a precipice. Make a decision to turn to a new leaf before this year’s father’s day to be reckoned as real fathers wey de pamper.
To you faithful fathers, you are the deal! Keep it up and make what you already have on a platter a delight to behold.
Happy father’s day in advance.
Jarlath Uche Opara could be reached via Jarlathuche@gmail.com
