Welcome to our society where many of us have been conditioned to believe that bigger is better. Every girl on social media talks about how much she prefers a bigger penis. Guys who are small or average down there are filled with low self esteem when it comes to taking a girl to the other room. The worst insult you can actually give to a guy is to tell him that his manhood is small.
There was this post I saw on Twitter the other day. A girl was complaining about the awful sex she had with a guy. The girl was like, “All the while he was inside me, I thought I was being fingered”. Lol, funny. Seriously, some girls can be so mean. Why on earth would you compare a man’s penis to a finger? DAMN!
You see, the notion that bigger is always better is generally false. Not all guys were created with a large penis. Besides, other than a boost in confidence, larger penis doesn’t afford men who have them with any extra prowess in the bedroom. The truth is, no matter what someone’s penis size, the creativity and a willingness to experiment can be the key. So, the question isn’t how big your penis is but how well do you use it?
If you are a lady reading this, I want you to ask yourself if you truly prefer a larger penis or if that is what you assumed you prefer because of cultural messaging. And just like you hope your partner will appreciate you for more than your breasts, butt, or mouth, there’s a lot more to sex with a man than meets the eye.
I am not in any way saying that size doesn’t matter at all. All I am saying is that there’s just not a default preference.
So for the guys, I want you all to forget about your preconceived notions of penis size and read on for the sex positions you may want to try with your partner. Remember, size doesn’t matter as long as you use your tool well.
- Pile Driver
This sex position is quite an exotic one that requires a lot of flexibility. It can be very awkward to get into this position with your partner. To perform the pile driver love making position, your partner needs to first lie on her back. Next, she needs to lift her legs in the air. Then, you grab the back of her ankles and slowly push them towards your head. This will cause your lower back to start lifting up off the bed. It is an awesome position and to ensure your comfort, you should do it on a carpeted floor or couch or on the bed.
- Doggie style
For a guy with a small penis, the general rule is that you would want to go for any position that would facilitate deep penetration, so that you can utilize that entire length of your dick. That is why doggie style is an awesome option. In this position, have your partner on her knees and hands while you kneel behind her. Then she drops her chest and head to the bed and tilts her butt in the air. In that position, you would be able to push your hips forward enough to penetrate your partner. With this position also, you can reach around to provide your lady with extra clitoral stimulation.
- Splitting Bamboo
In this position, you should have your partner lie on the floor with one leg extended straight. You should then, go ahead to kneel between her legs and raise her other leg straight up so it is resting on your shoulder. Keep a hold of her leg as you enter and use it to push and pull on as you thrust in and out.
- Propped Reverse Cowgirl
To achieve this position, you should lie down with a pillow underneath your butt. Then, you partner sits on top of you but faces towards your feet. The reason why this would work is because the position will press your hips forward and expose more of the penis which will make the experience feel deeper to her.
So there, you have the four amazing sex positions that you can try out with your partner if you happen to the small down there. Though, the truth is that there is nothing that works for everyone. There are just positions and it is left for you to figure out what works for you and work with that.
And for the ladies out that, if the measure of a lover was solely based on the size of a guy’s penis, then you could buy a big dildo and have the best lover in the world.
