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April 18, 2026 - 1:41 AM

Parents Lose Children, Then They Lose the Truth, I Was Once that Parent

In Nigeria, parents do not only lose children to medical errors. They lose something else afterward truth. They lose dignity. They lose justice.

Medical mistakes are not unique to Nigeria. No health system, ever, anywhere in the world, is immune to human error. Doctors are fallible. Systems fail. Complications arise. This reality, however painful, is universally accepted. What separates functional health systems from broken ones is not the absence of mistakes, but the response to them.

In Nigeria, the response is silence.

Hospitals close ranks. Explanations are vague or contradictory. Medical records become difficult to access. Families are advised to “leave everything to God,” as though faith were an alternative to accountability. Questions are treated as hostility. Grief is met not with transparency, but with evasion and institutional coldness. The error, if acknowledged at all, is quietly buried and the system moves on unchanged.

This silence is not incidental. It is structural.

And this silence persists not because regulation is absent, but because it is ineffective.

What makes this silence more troubling is that Nigeria is not without institutions meant to prevent it. On paper, there are regulatory bodies charged with investigating medical misconduct and disciplining offenders. Chief among them is the Medical and Dental Council of Nigeria, empowered by law to regulate medical practice, receive complaints, and sanction doctors found guilty of professional negligence. Hospitals have management boards. Ministries of health exist at both state and federal levels. Courts remain an avenue for redress.

The problem, therefore, is not the absence of oversight. It is the absence of consequence.

For grieving parents, these institutions often function less as paths to justice and more as procedural mazes. Complaints require petitions, documentation that families struggle to obtain, and patience that grief has already exhausted. Investigations are slow, opaque, and frequently handled within closed professional circles. Outcomes, when they occur at all, are rarely communicated publicly or even to the complainants themselves. Accountability, in practice, becomes invisible.

This opacity erodes trust. When disciplinary processes are hidden, the public cannot tell whether justice has been done or whether it was attempted at all. A system where doctors investigate doctors, hospitals investigate themselves, and sanctions are shielded from public view creates the perception, and often the reality, of protection over responsibility.

Most troubling is the growing sense that justice in healthcare is selective. Cases appear to move faster when public attention is intense, when media pressure mounts, or when the affected family has social or cultural capital. This raises an uncomfortable but necessary question: if accountability only becomes urgent when a prominent voice speaks, what happens to those without one?

Nigeria’s healthcare sector is thus regulated in theory and permissive in practice. Rules exist, but enforcement is uncertain. Powers are granted, but outcomes are elusive. In such an environment, regulatory bodies risk becoming symbolic,present enough to reassure, but ineffective enough to change little.

A system where accountability depends on visibility is not sustainable. Nor is it just. Medical regulation must protect patients first, not institutions. Until disciplinary mechanisms are transparent, timely, and trusted, silence will continue to follow loss, and preventable tragedies will continue to repeat themselves.

Every day, parents lose children to delayed diagnoses, inadequate monitoring, avoidable infections, poor clinical judgment, or outright negligence. But what compounds these tragedies is what follows: the absence of investigation, apology, responsibility, or reform. There are rarely independent reviews. Rarely consequences. Rarely assurances that lessons have been learned. Instead, families are expected to absorb loss in private and surrender their right to answers in public.

Most parents comply not because they are satisfied, but because they are powerless.

They lack access to legal redress. They lack the financial resources to pursue prolonged battles. They lack the emotional capacity to fight institutions while burying children. And crucially, they lack a platform. The healthcare system is acutely aware of this imbalance of power. It survives on it. Silence is cheaper than justice, and impunity is easier than reform.

It is against this backdrop that Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s intervention has resonated so deeply. Not because she is a public figure, but because her voice travels where so many others cannot. Her experience has forced a national conversation that countless parents have attempted, unsuccessfully, to initiate.

For every case that gains public attention, there are thousands that disappear quietly into hospital wards, mortuaries, and unacknowledged records. Her story is not exceptional, it is simply visible. The discomfort her words have caused should not be directed at her, but at a system that requires prominence before it will listen.

A healthcare system that cannot admit error cannot improve. One that cannot apologize cannot heal. And one that suppresses scrutiny while shielding itself from consequences is not merely inefficient it is unsafe.

Accountability is not an attack on medicine. It is an essential part of it.

In countries where patient safety is taken seriously, medical errors are documented, audited, and used as tools for learning. Transparency is not punitive, it is preventive. It protects future patients. It restores trust. Silence, on the other hand, guarantees repetition. Every covered-up mistake becomes a rehearsal for the next tragedy.

What bereaved parents ask for is often modest. They are not demanding public executions of professionals or the collapse of institutions. They ask for acknowledgment. For honesty. For the dignity of being told what went wrong. For assurance that their child’s death will not be dismissed as an inconvenience or erased from institutional memory.

Grief without justice is a form of prolonged trauma. When parents are denied truth, they are denied closure. When systems refuse responsibility, pain becomes permanent.

Nigeria’s healthcare crisis is often discussed in terms of funding gaps, infrastructure decay, and workforce shortages. These are real and urgent problems. But there is also a crisis of culture,a culture that discourages transparency, resists oversight, and prioritizes institutional protection over patient safety.

Until this culture changes, no amount of new equipment or expanded budgets will be enough. Trust cannot be built on denial. Healing cannot occur in secrecy.

Chimamanda did not create this problem. She illuminated it.

The question now is whether Nigeria’s healthcare institutions will continue to respond with defensiveness and silence, or whether they will finally confront the uncomfortable truth that accountability is not a threat to medicine, but its moral foundation.

Lives depend on that choice.

 

Stephanie Shaakaa

shaakaastephanie@yahoo.com

08034861434

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