I have long believed that our words can return to confront us when we least expect, and recent controversies surrounding Prof. Joash Amupitan only reinforce this reality. Whether the allegations about past tweets are true or not is beside the point. What matters is the lesson: social media is a public space with a long memory. The theory of digital permanence reminds us that once something is posted, it rarely disappears. Every comment, every reaction, becomes part of the record from which others judge our character.
For aspiring leaders, this should trigger serious reflection. Emotional, impulsive posts made in moments of tension may feel justified, but they shape how the world evaluates us. As social identity theory explains, loyalty to groups can cloud judgment, making hostility appear like courage. Yet, what looks like boldness today may be seen as intolerance tomorrow.
In my earlier piece, “We Are the Villains We Condemn,” I argued that many of us are not so different from those we criticize, whether Daniel Bwala, Nafiu Bala, Prof. Joash Amupitan, or even Tinubu. Today we defend; tomorrow we condemn, often not out of principle, but convenience. Cognitive dissonance explains this shift, but it does not excuse it.
Worse still is how quickly discourse descends into insults and stereotypes, even among supposed intellectuals. Leadership demands emotional discipline. Without it, credibility collapses. At the same time, overzealous supporters often create unnecessary enemies, engaging in digital mob actions that silence others but damage reputations.
Even in private life, relationships evolve. Today’s ally can become tomorrow’s critic, and words once ignored can be weaponized. Human beings remember, especially when emotions change.
In the end, whether pro- or anti-government, the real issue is how we engage. Our words are shaping not just present opinions, but future judgment about who we are. Speak carelessly today, and you may spend tomorrow explaining it.
Bagudu can be reached via bagudumohammed15197@gmail.com or 07034943575.
