Love or Hate


Hi admin, I am a 28 years Yoruba lady. My problem started about eleven years ago when I met my very first love, that was during my SSS 3, at first we were more of friends and to be sincere, we really never dated, we were more like friends but we knew we had something for each other.

Eventually, we both gained admission to different universities, we both got into new relationships. It never kept me and my former lover apart as we always end up having sex anytime we are together, even when I had another boyfriend. I tried to let him out of my mind, but it was not easy.

However, he informed me about his plans to get married early next year, even though I am in a relationship, I still cannot believe I will loose him just like that, I have tried to get him off my mind, but rather this has got me into depression. I am just so confused.

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  1. I am loving this column, you guys should keep it up.

    My candid advice to this lady is just to keep to her own relationship, i am sure if the guy really loved her and wanted her, he would not have married someone else

  2. I understand how you feel. I’ve been in that shoe before so I think the best thing for you to do is to find someone that you are really in love with. I dont think your really in love with your current boyfriend. Better still, travel and leave the same area for a while, so you can have a free mind.


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