There are about ten signs that readily give one out as an adulterous person.
Not many wouldn’t know this popular but cliche saying of having no sign on the face to read the construction of the mind.
However true this may sound, the case of reading an act of adultery on the face is real, making it an exception to the rule.
To those who have the seventh and eight senses, every act to read the signs of adultery on faces , on smiles and bodily display of affection may be overly simple. The challenge is finding such persons with such an extra sensory endowment.
Research has proved that 90% of the male folks are promiscuous, leaving the remaining 10% on the probability list.
Same statistics though silent on the female folks is not by any means saying that women are better off in this regard.
The two genders may after all be in same bus travelling to same destination, it takes two to tango anyway.
Theirs may even be higher expecially in this era of massive male instrument dysfunctional performance.
In every 10 males , 6 of them may be experiencing one form of penial malfunctioning or the other. The slogan one minute man etc may not be strange. As a matter of fact it is a saying of household relevance which has unconsciously placed pressure on the men, playing to impress and to prove point, even when the requisite strength isn’t anymore.
Trust people and their business initiatives to cash out,using the pains,challenges, nightmare and problems of others to smile to the bank.
The truth is in every 20 adverts that pop up online 18 of such adverts are about sex enhancing substances, well advertised using both virtual and sound alluring techniques to lure men to patronise them.
Those advertisers have studied the power in human sexuality and the desperation that is likely to be generated for lack of potency. Anything that promises cure become a hot cake .
Only God knows how many men that have fallen into the booby traps of such fake and dubious online sex enhancer purveyors.
You are actually patiently reading to know the ten signs of a promiscuous person. Really? I just imagined the gullibility of men when it comes to tips, principles, strategies, rules etc of success, deliverance, sex, successful marriage, prosperity, instant riches etc.
We are wired to seek the short path to success. The short cut to achieve anything in life. Nobody wants to travel the long path of endurance, patience and dedication to get things done.
Why would anybody think of ten signs of identifying a cheating person from a distance? Doesn’t it sound weird? Bizarre? And desperate? A reflection of the focus of the mind?
Many strangely would order for such book if it pops up online. We are too credulous,very vulnerable and would fall for anything that has to do with sexual enhancing substance. Why are we like this?
Social media has been sexualized, overly “phonographicalized”. Sex and unduly exposure of sensitive parts of the body have become a gateway to building followers and possibly cashing out.
There is no act to read the mind construction on the face and there is no sign anywhere except one is either a witch to know an adulterous person from a distance or gifted with the word of knowledge and wisdom.
Adultery is in the heart and the only way to know who is one is in the act.
We all look smartly dressed, looking gentlemanly in every sense of it while in the public space. Adultery is in the mind. It is not external with no sign anywhere giving one away.
One may after all be sitting with a chronic adulterer, nicely dressed, piously disposed and gentle looking without knowing, until that lion inside roars unexpectedly.
We are all wearing the garment of possible adultery inside of us. It takes a man or a person of courage, decency, self control and spirit filled to continue to shut that riotous spirit up each time it tickles for expression.
You are not a superman, even if you are, many supermen have fallen to its tricks. You are off course not angels. Even if you are, many angels have fallen to alluring postures of daughters of men.
Keep it simple. Don’t over rate yourself, for he who thinks he stands may fall at the least expected moment.
The war of promiscuous life style is raging in the hearts of men and women. Flee! Don’t argue. Flee ! Don’t dare, else one may find oneself in a position not bargained.
Be deliberate about what you allow to access your mind. Find a way of putting some control measures on what your eyes feed on, like drops of water, if allowed might deplete the hardness of a rock.
There are no signs to know who is promiscuous or not. It is in the act. Being either caught makes it more obvious that one actually is or a DNA test, which off course has disorganised many marriages may after all be another way. Many men without sounding insensitive are fathering children they didn’t father biologically.
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