The actress made the call on Sunday at the launch of her motivational book, Odogwu Girl, held at the Oriental Hotel in Victoria Island, Lagos.
Speaking at the event, Okonkwo said the book was born out of her desire to inspire women navigating life’s challenges, stressing that success is driven by determination, hard work and resilience—not gender.
She urged young people to remain committed to personal growth regardless of their background, failures or life circumstances.
“Success is the reward for hard work. It does not matter your size, color, background or how many times you have failed. If you are consistent, resilient and believe in yourself, you will definitely become the person you aspire to be,” she said.
Addressing the book’s “Girl Power” chapter, the actress encouraged women to focus on building purposeful lives rather than seeking societal validation.
According to her, many people are preoccupied with how they will be remembered after death rather than intentionally creating lives of value and lasting impact.
“The whole essence of living is to become. You don’t just exist. As a young woman, ask yourself where you see yourself in the next 10 years and begin working towards that vision,” she said.
Okonkwo dismissed the notion that wealth and success are gender-specific, insisting that excellence is earned through competence, dedication and unwavering commitment.
She explained that the title Odogwu reflects outstanding character and achievement rather than gender, celebrating individuals distinguished by resilience, hard work and exceptional accomplishments.
The actress also advised women to invest in self-development, acquire valuable skills, and prepare for future opportunities rather than chasing unrealistic lifestyles.
“Learn to package yourself, expand your knowledge and prepare yourself for the success you desire,” she added.
Reflecting on her personal journey, Okonkwo recounted losing her father at the age of 13 and her mother in 2020, describing both experiences as painful but life-changing.
She said the tragedies strengthened her resolve to stay focused on her purpose rather than allow adversity to define her future.
“No matter what happens, I keep moving because challenges do not determine where I am going. I always remind myself that I have responsibilities and dreams that require commitment and hard work,” she said.
Speaking on balancing ambition with societal expectations, she urged women to prioritize creating value, build confidence, and remain open to constructive criticism.
“What value do you bring to the table? That should be your greatest concern, not trying to impress people,” she said.
Okonkwo noted that her journey in the entertainment industry had reinforced the importance of discipline, strong values, and positive associations in shaping public perception.
Beyond acting, she said she remains committed to mentoring women through her online initiative, Girl Power with Nkoli Nwansuka, where she encourages participants to believe in themselves and pursue their goals.
Also speaking at the event, Grace Ofure-Ibhakhomu, Chief Executive Officer of Lifecard International Investment Ltd., urged women to remain steadfast despite societal challenges.
She said becoming an “Odogwu” requires sacrifice, resilience, determination, and an unwavering commitment to one’s dreams.
“I was not born with a silver spoon. I sold second-hand clothes and did several menial jobs, but I remained determined to succeed. Dreams will remain dreams if they are not pursued with commitment and hard work,” she said.
Executive Director of TruCSR Consulting, Mary Ephraim Egbas, described Okonkwo as a resilient woman whose life story should inspire others.
She encouraged women to emulate the actress by setting clear goals and working diligently toward excellence in their chosen careers.
The event drew entertainment personalities, social media influencers and other notable guests, with highlights including musical performances, keynote presentations and the official unveiling of Odogwu Girl, a book centered on resilience, purpose and women’s empowerment.
