The children of the world are varyingly entrusted to all of us, so the childless writer may arguably care or contribute more than the careless or average parent and official. Although the title can fit in many categories, I will actually focus on social media failings. As Mr. Mark Zuckerberg of Meta is dragged to court over intentional harming of children and teenagers, or at least of intolerable negligence against the vulnerable, the guilty media or limited angry parents are under diagnosing the problem? If you have three to ten diseases, and claim or confront only one, then you may likely recycle through problems, because the other d[oers of]evils or diseases will likely grow.
The accusations revolve around mental health, an area I believe our evolving science and technology has very limited knowledge of, or a lot more learning to do. Our Politicians have even much more learning to do, but the lack of honesty from the parents to the politicians may hamper getting or accepting the needed divine knowledge. By sacrificing Meta with a huge fine towards the potentially guilty and under-repenting parents, lawyers, and the u.s government, we may wrongly celebrate in placebo effects or wishful thinking. It takes much more than punishment in the nasty world of Capitalism that over-commercialises even the judiciary, and that is not to argue punishment is not part of the solution. ‘Will all repent’ is implicitly asking will all admit, be charged, or be willing to adjust in probation or our earthly respite?
Guilt by Association: The time coincided with the Epstein Files and how many people are faulted or punished for associating with Epstein in even non-sexual matters? My point is ‘guilt by association’ can be very real negligence or indifference, but can it be overstretched? The western world is hard to properly gauge, they have demonstrated power or blessing in many aspects, but where are they guilty of weaknesses, terrible choices, and/or even evident or seeming curses? Jarga! Did you forget guilty Africa or claiming Africans+ are dangerously following, not learning quick, and included in the title? Well, I will detail more later. However, the sub-title means if dealing with Epstein on finance or philanthropic matters after knowing his sexual crimes is bad, then how is associating with Mark Zuckerberg or any of his companies after knowing he contributed or still contributing to the mental health issues of millions of children? I do not think Elon Musk or others are any or much better. You can argue sex or females are more special, or even the need to wait for conviction. I think my posting of this article on Facebook will be censored at what level, or may educate at least one parent may be better than my total retreat from Facebook. I and millions also use WhatsApp, another company owned by Meta, so should our illiterate African or xyz parents be charged with guilt by association? We can endlessly debate on such or proceed to deeper diagnosis and potential solutions.
Failing Parents: last night, I asked my sister in law: ‘do you set the parental settings of the children (my nieces) or you just give them the smartphones’. She told me: you are part of it, you are here, take the phones and set them… Apparently, I am not a biological parent, but a parent to how many beyond my immediate nieces? An indirect parent like me must be very careful, I rather stop on advising on many issues, and if a stranger from Ghana or xyz learns more than my brother and the wife, then a government of mine or others may learn to help in which ways? Which caring influencer, company, or government will make a video: ‘Bad or questionable parents refuse to even set parental settings on smartphones, then blame which companies and governments in distributed or layers of responsibilities?’ . Accept it will help millions of children or argue how thousands or millions of questionable children may find a loophole you are not ready to fix, or appreciate how childless folks or better parents may think and contribute to the ‘success’ of your children. Another ad: ‘Good parents demand or do monthly assessment on phone usage, time limit settings, suspicious reportings, etc. ‘ So the direct versus indirect parents cannot be equally guilty or equal in willingness to repent.
The parents that brought the lawsuit are ‘heroes’ in some ways, but how many of them are truly honest and ready to learn in which ways? One of the parents admits her child was posting bad stuff and receiving bad too… If the proceeds of the fine can extend to setting up a national or worldwide regulatory body, then that is a fractional victory I will prefer over illusory trickle down theory or let each sue by groups of individuals or by nations. If the mental harm reaches suicide, that is easy evidence, but if over thousand Gambian or xyz children are suffering different types of mental harm through Instagram or xyz, then how is a awarded fine or restitution to few brave parents help our African children? You can endlessly argue, but a worldwide dilemma is here and we the activists are either cursed or mysteriously blessed. Who said the mental illness was 10% or xyz due to parental shortcomings; 35% or xyz due to Meta; 15% or xyz due to other social media; a percentage to many factors and governments or even the questionable teenagers. You may accuse me of blaming victims, but tell me which culprit have I spared, and I authorise you to go after such.
Failing Companies: Although I am using the term failing, my writings tend to focus on suggestions or potential solutions. In this case too, we must approach it with direct and indirect companies, similar to direct and indirect parents. I will not waste much time on how the social media may adjust, because other writers and the investigations may do a better job on that identified disease. We have a system of protecting whistle-blowers of companies, but I am also looking for a system of rewarding whistle-blowers more than the brave ‘guilty’ parents or guilty-victims. A special commission or special jury can study the contributors of whistle-blowers and proportionately award them to speed up human evolution, curb company wrongs, and encourage the brave and grateful who risk joblessness in our terrible capitalist world.
The other part of the failing companies, which interest me more, is the phone manufacturers and operating system owners. I will bore many readers if I get too technical, but our journalists and politicians can now explore what we can do on this end. Special operating systems for teenagers, a special patch, or special periodic notifications to parents, including factory resets… Again, more is possible at many levels, but imaginative or futuristic suggestions are not for the average reader and may demand new research. Many companies can afford such research, or let part of the billions they may take from Meta be directed towards such research. Should I be part of that research team at what level or activists should be jobless, feared, and hated in Capitalism? God is providing and may he help every caring soul, not just the good to great activists.
Failing governments: Australia and how many governments are banning which teenagers and children from social media? Human evolution is sometimes questionable and hardly consistent or the same speed. We can vaguely claim the west is the first to have smartphones and social media for their children, but how many years before 10% or more of Africans did? We can be slightly more precise with thought provoking questions: America or xyz was ahead of Australia in making guns and social media, but Australia and xyz are quicker to repent than the u.s, and Africans are worse or often last to repent with illusory excuses on which issues? I mean Africa may not have huge suicide rates like the u.s, but it does not mean our children may not be suffering from other social media ills. Asking which African countries will act first, by how much, and which will be last to meaningfully act are all relevant. Who will make an ad: ‘We are bad Africans, we will not move to help children or teenagers unless pressured by the west or xyz; instead we do total internet black-out if we are caught doing bad things or the teenagers are rightly or wrongly protesting…’ .
Meta and other social media companies are not hurting only western children. Individuals in the u.s act to benefit mainly individuals and their law firms. Europe often acts at the government levels with huge fines against big companies, collecting billions for officials or up to public good. Which Asian countries act by banning or which other methods, from parents to government level? African governments and African individuals are guilty at what levels compared to African companies in the dangerous tail of Capitalism? They will sell the excuse that international politics is different, and the naive will buy every forwarded excuse. Neither your countries, nor the AU is capable of what at education level, re-education level, and other confronting levels up to the courts?
I have provided a simple effective ad on ‘ bad parents refuse even parental settings, monthly assessment , etc… ‘, but what is enough ad and how often should it repeat? Any ads for the kids? Rather than regulating towards unlimited Internet access or renegotiating with the world towards better Internet deals, our African governments are blindly allowing questionable African companies to lure our children with more ‘social media bundles ‘ as deals. Hello Gambian or xyz children, we are blind to your mental issues, we are deaf to their problems or suggested solutions, we are dumb on ‘exhort each other to truth…’ even after Jarga blows the trumpet of truth? Who offers social media deals, because university or safer learning bundle deals are yet to exist? You can argue it is for the adults too, but can African governments regulate in stopping such messages (ads) and deals to teenagers and children? You can argue millions of guilty parents will allow their children to use adults’ phones, or admit millions will not and even the debate may help. Do we need special social media for the children, or understand the worst of teenagers do mislead younger teenagers, children, and even some adults to deserve which mental health issues? Yes! Call me crazy or mean, but nature or God has a very complex test for humankind on earth. So if we invite people into this questionable world, we add responsibilities to ourselves and should remind our children our choices matter at every age.
The earth comes with mild natural challenges, but the man-made challenges due to our obsession with sex, money, and image take it to very dangerous levels. Our choices tend to be like seeds, some growing like vegetables in short term or trees in long term, except dangerous weeds or deadly trees exist with negative choices. So how do we uproot a dangerous weed, dangerous tree, or deadly tree will start with knowing, identifying, and what level of efforts? You can learn from others’ mistakes or wait for your turn, but time and the contents of time (ch.103) mean something to me. So I admit the good through social media, but how do we confront the bad with truth and patience? How much social media is dangerous for children, teenagers, and even adults? The honest reality is we are still learning or under learning.
I am slightly addicted to social media, even though I mainly use two: Facebook and YouTube. I consider both bad in respect to censorship, because I happen to be a fierce writer who attacks even the over adored western world in very unique ways, so they fear me very differently. Actually, youtube banned my channel with vague excuses and I am not yet sure if I want to open another channel to go through similar banning, after shadow censoring they did for years. I can still benefit from youtube through receiving, but I cannot post or comment. I can share videos through WhatsApp and others with my comments. I refused to install tik-tok, Instagram, etc. My twitter or X is dormant, because the capitalist companies over complicate ‘divorce’, they need to lie with numbers, be cruel or indifferent to even teenagers, and wrongly over-brag on financial looting as achievements. If a very strong adult like me understands some dangers in social media, then I warn you and your teenagers to be careful.
Legalize but ban Advertisements: Some countries ban the advertising of bad or questionable products or services, including cigarettes, alcohol, etc. So if we agree social media is increasingly or intolerably dangerous, then banning its advertisements at what levels can be good? Adding a special tax on dangerous products and services is legit to offset the ills. Other smart restrictions are possible, from personal, state, federal, and international levels. If these capitalist billionaires are admitting or claiming they cannot control even social media, then brace for more excuses and indifference on AI. I wonder if God or xyz have much control on AI , offer respite until when, or we confront the devils with every knowledge and fiber God offers.
Although I used the term ‘addicted’ to social media, I am largely the type that can withdraw from almost anything, anyone, anyplace… I only mean I use ‘too many hours’ on social media compared to my preference, but I can and did abstain without problems. It is not only mental issues, but too much social media can lead to physical issues, especially if you do not have good changing posture and special gadgets like projectors…
Problematic adults’ rights are like the dangerous bridges children must skip or go through in which ways? A choking challenge is certainly not for even sane adults, let alone which crazy teenagers or children? From freedom of expression or largely cruel pursuit of wealth in heartless Capitalism, we allow too many dangerous things where tolerance matters, but tolerance actually exists for learning purposes. So tolerance without learning is dangerous. Freedom without knowledge is dangerous. Boxing and countless dangerous sports exist for mainly money, which means luring crazy boys towards head injury or probable mental issues in later life. After luring some adults, they lure the boys, then the girls will beg or fight in the name of fun or xyz. After luring the west or xyz, Africans will likely follow in our complex crazy world of good and questionable importing.
I rather have the countless great plants of every continent coming my way, with or without social media from every country… Well Jarga, how many plants have you learned about through social media? That is just temptation unless realized by the facilitating God, so it is not much different from a pretty girl/woman stripping for you until when? Wait until you are mature or come over as my special vegan partner, but how can we smartly survive under these bloody meat eating leaders of this world? Luring individuals, luring companies, and even luring governments hardly care for mutual uplifting or 100% honesty. So may a honest God give us the best now or help us defeat all guilty folks and give us the best as reward.
The free world of nature is my preference, but I am also a technology oriented person, especially to enhance nature. I am dreaming of owning my own personal aircraft and/or making it for others. Considering I am a writer and care about people, I need to interact with people in one form or another. Technology makes it possible to help or receive help from a distance. The ability to utilise what I learned from the u.s then and now, learned from different places and God, and help multiple countries through a few hours is largely a blessing that can rise. I still prefer yoga, walking under the sun, spending time on the beach, exercise, etc over anything above two hours a day on social media. My time on social media is not wasted and largely safe, but how do we help the willing in and beyond social media if the guilty governments consider my type too dangerous?
Epstein reportedly hurts hundreds or thousands; Mark Zuckerberg reportedly hurts millions daily; your Internet service provider in your country wants more or less social media for teenagers+; me and you are helping or hurting thousands or millions through social media? Well, let us do our best and ch.103 imposed patience on us with many branches, but 100% truth before and with sweet patience is my target or level. Will you urge a parent, company, or government through specific or general sharing? If you cannot write better than me , then share or be charged with indifference like the guilty average Africans, the under-repenting parents of this world… May God bless Showlove Trinity: let’s learn, let’s work, let’s have fun.
By Jarga Kebba Gigo
An Activist and Transformer
Author of Juts Quhr-aahn

